The New Zealand Herald reports…
“In 2001, Pat Mesiti was living his dream. He had managed to overcome a deeply troubled upbringing to become one of Australia’s most popular, and wealthy, evangelists. He had his own TV show, a lucrative career as a motivational speaker, a mansion in a flash Sydney suburb, a devoted wife and two beautiful daughters.
And then it all turned into a nightmare. It was discovered that he had been visiting prostitutes. He was sacked as national director of Australian Christian Churches and stripped of his licence to minister. His marriage imploded.
For the Australian media, the scandal was even more delicious as the same church had been rocked by a similar saga just two years previously. Its spiritual leader, Frank Houston, had been forced to resign amid allegations he had sexually abused young members of his congregation while a minister in New Zealand.
“I lost everything,” Mesiti recalls. “I was so depressed that I couldn’t talk for two years. I struggled with my mental health.”
Yet seven years on, Mesiti claims business has never been better. While he is no longer a minister, he is back on the speaking circuit and doing what he loves most – preaching what he practises.
After some serious soul-searching, he has a new wife, another daughter and a very busy diary. He got himself back on track, he explains, “one day at a time, and one friend at a time”.
Next week he will visit New Zealand, courtesy of The Knowledge Gym, for a seminar titled “The Mind to Succeed”.
His message? If you want to be successful, hang out with successful people. If you want to make money, you have to make a plan. Follow your passion, be prepared to make changes in your life, and go for it.
Naturally, it’s a bit more complicated than that, he insists.
“I don’t just do the cheesy American stuff – ‘you’re amazing, you’re wonderful’. I tell people: ‘If you want to grow your business, you’ve got to grow yourself first’.”
In fact, Mesiti has visited New Zealand many times over the past few years and claims to love the place. It would be his first choice of somewhere to live other than Australia, he gushes. Or maybe second, after the Amalfi coast in Italy.
One of the things he likes about New Zealand is that the tall poppy syndrome is not as bad here as it is across the Tasman. Well, he would say that, wouldn’t he? But if his testimonials are true, then Mesiti does indeed still have the gift of the gab.
It has to be said that none of the information about his hasty departure from Sydney’s infamous Hillsong Church is included in his publicity material, and it certainly isn’t mentioned in his Celebrity Speakers profile. But Mesiti is happy enough to talk about it – it is, after all, all there on the net.
“I made a terrible mistake and I paid dearly for it. Seven years on, I’ve put my life back together and I say to people: ‘Look, everyone makes mistakes’. My mistakes were an event. It doesn’t have to be a permanent condition in my life.
“When I share this story publicly … especially men, because men struggle with sexual issues. And it happens all the time, and they don’t have to kill themselves for it. In my talks, I talk about men and women and relationships a lot.”
He is understandably reluctant to promote his religious views in his marketing, but says his faith has never wavered.
When I mention that there appear to be some similarities between Hillsong and New Zealand’s Destiny Church, he is diplomatic.
Hillsong, which remains one of Australia’s fastest-growing churches despite its bad press, is these days led by Frank Houston’s son, Brian.
As well as a book on sex, Brian is the author of You Need More Money: Discovering God’s Amazing Financial Plan for Your Life. According to press articles, Brian owns a Harley-Davidson. And his father Frank, who died four years ago, was known as “The Bishop”.
Mesiti confirms he has met Destiny’s Brian Tamaki and wishes him all the best, but is quick to note that his own view is that you shouldn’t judge other people’s morals.
These days he finds that people often want to talk to him about their problems.
“I’ve always been a bit of a radical. I was one of the first ones to bring in the rock music, and the drums. But no one made me the moral police of people’s lives.
“If someone’s struggling with a challenge, or a sexual issue, I’m not going to beat them up. I want to help people, I really do, and I’m not going to beat up on anybody I’m trying to reach.”
Mesiti has talked to all kinds of groups in New Zealand, from real estate agents to schoolchildren.
He still helps run a drug rehab course known as Teen Challenge, which has a branch in New Zealand. And he continues to both raise money and donate a fair chunk of his earnings to charity – supporting underprivileged kids in Uganda, for example.
“Once you become a giver, greed is conquered. In our organisation, we feed about 7000 kids a month in Third World countries. I’m also very involved in drug rehabilitation of teenagers in high school.”
Like many others, he blames the current state of the world’s economy on greed. Yet lots of people still want to know how to make more money, it seems.
Earlier this year, Mesiti shared a platform with Donald Trump in Australia. He also runs a millionaire’s club. This week the club scored a phone interview with American economist Paul Zane Pilzer, a former adviser to Ronald Reagan, who was due to share his thoughts on possible solutions to our economic woes.
So far, Mesiti complains, there have been an awful lot of people keen to wallow in the mud of the worst recession in decades. But very few have been keen to talk about how we get ourselves out of it.
Despite, or perhaps because of, his own personal dramas, Mesiti is resolutely one of the “glass half full” brigade, although – to his credit – he doesn’t mention the phrase. But he does note that current share prices are a fabulous opportunity. It’s the same in your personal life, he says.
“One of the things I teach people is when you fail, you’ve got to fall forward. Having a family breakdown is an awful thing to happen. I wouldn’t wish that on any parent’s children. But I’ve got three beautiful daughters and they’re all doing great. They all love their daddy, and I love them.”
I manage to squeeze out of him what he has bought his new wife for Christmas. All I’m allowed to print is that I’m sure she will be very pleased. I don’t think he’ll mind me also saying that it probably cost a fortune.
Money might not buy you happiness, but I suspect that in Mesiti’s world, it still helps.”
From http://www.nzherald.co.nz/religion-and-beliefs/news/article.cfm?c_id=301&objectid=10546655